Love in a Relationship

"A life without love is like a life without air"

Think back. When the first time you heard the phrase "i love you." When was the last time that you really meant it I should say. Or have you meant it. Today people say I love you within like a week of a relationship...How do you know you love that person already when you are still getting to know each other. Love is the biggest emotion we have. What also falls under love is compassion and mercy. Which is your whole heart. Is your heart full? Does it have compassion and mercy?
Ok lets talk relationships. A relationship to me is something deeper than an I love you...Deeper than the feeling you get when you look into her eyes and realize there is something special about that girl. To me when you love someone you ask if its alright from the "parents". I am not talking about your birth mom and dad. I am talking about God.. I know what your saying how could you ask him if its ok and know its from him. Well let me ask you this, can you focus more on him with her or without her? That is the question you should answer to yourself.
My first relationship I was in, I would hardly call a relationship for one i barely knew what one was and two I had no idea what love was.
You could talk on this topic for awhile because it is a subject that people have many opinions on like I know I love him or her.. But do we really know what love, true love is. If we do not have jesus who's two most important commandments in the bible were about love. How would we know how to love. I have found the girl god wants me to share my life with. It took me two months to tell this beautiful girl I loved her. I didn't rush....i was patient....and God leaned over touched my shoulder and said this: "Michael, you see her, you see that girl over there. She loves me very much and her heart is unique and genuine. She strives to reach people and bring people to me. Michael that is the girl I want you to have." She has been the greatest blessing in my entire life and nothing will ever stop me from loving her.
I did not fall in love with her for her looks for she is very beautiful. I did not fall in love with her for her personality or her smile even though her smile made me blush. I fell in love with her for her HEART..the heart that God made. I love her for when I look into her I eyes I see her heart....I see God.
This is what I am talking about...Have a guarded heart do not rush into something you are not sure of..do not say I love you after one week because you still do not fully know each other and do not think you do. Find that person that makes you dig deep within yourself and makes you want to be better. Make sure she has a heart that God has prepared just for you.

Love is a strong word so use it with care....

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